Don’t Let Your Debt Define You

Don’t Let Your Debt Define You
Hayley Jayne
By: Hayley Jayne
Posted: October 16, 2013
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Debt has this funny way of creeping up on people.

For example, it can start off innocently enough when a person uses a credit card to pay for something they can’t afford until payday.

Sometimes a person’s debt can spiral out of control and become all consuming. It happens all too easily.

Many people want a lifestyle they simply can’t afford, or they make choices to buy things now rather than save up for a while.

Some people get into debt because they’re trying to fund their education, or emergencies might crop up and they have no choice but to pay their bills on credit cards.

Before they know it, they might owe thousands of dollars to credit card and loan companies or student loan providers.

However debt starts, it can happen to anyone at some point in their lives.

The battle begins:

If you find yourself in a big pile of debt, it can become a battle to keep your head above water. Being in a lot of debt will not only make your finances incredibly tight each month, but it might also result in many emotional side effects, such as anger, frustration, fear and depression.

In turn, this can impact your life and the lives of your loved ones around you.

When your debt spins out of control and becomes a big part of your life, it can ultimately dictate how you live your life day to day. This is where the heavy burden of debt can start to define who you are.

You will have to think twice about every purchasing decision you make, and if you choose to ignore your debt for a while, eventually it will catch up with you.

Sacrifices will have to be made sooner rather than later. Let’s face it – being in debt is simply no fun!

“By acting now, you’ll save

yourself a lot of heartache.”

Be in control of your debt, not the other way around.

Plenty of people fear their debt, but I urge you not to because no matter how scary things might seem, when you’re trying to get your head around those debt figures, this low point will not last forever.

If you think you might be ready to face up to your debt and tackle it head-on, the following tips will help you take those first steps to a better financial future.

  1. Write down exactly how much you owe to all of your creditors. Even write down your friend Joe who lent you $20 to tide you over until payday.
  2. Work out your income and expenses right down to the last dollar.
  3. Shop around for better deals on all your service providers.
  4. Put a realistic household budget together and track your expenses against your budget.

If you have money to spare in your budget, attack your debts. If you do not have money to spare, look at ways to make extra money to use for overpayments.

There are many ways to make extra money, from selling your old things on eBay to doing odd jobs for family and friends.

Ask for help if you need it.

If you are really struggling with your debt and find you do not have enough cash to live on, do not be afraid to ask for help.

There are many debt charities and agencies that can offer impartial advice about talking to your creditors to manage your debt repayment program.

Sometimes just talking to someone you know can really make you see things more clearly and help you focus on the path you need to take.

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